Questions and Answers with Bella

Is domination prostitution or will there be any sex involved?
BDSM
is NOT prostitution and NO sex will be offered, performed, provided nor tolerated. DO NOT EVEN ASK- if this is what you want, go elsewhere. I will not be nude or partially nude during our appointment. No ILLEGAL Fetishes accepted: Pedophilia, necrophilia, or bestiality. No blood or enemas accepted either.

Are your services confidential and discreet?
Absolutely. I provide the utmost in discretion and confidentiality. I am a very private person as I’m sure you are so I respect you and your privacy just as I know you will mine.

Is your location secure and easily accessible?
Yes. I am located with 2 miles of the Beltway with well-lit metered parking provided. In addition, I am a short walk from the red line metro. Further directions will be provided when you schedule your appointment. I am conveniently located to DC, MD, and VA.

Do you date any of your clients? (even your favorites)
No, unfortunately I do not date my clients-even my most cherished favorites. Just as I’m sure you do not mix your business with pleasure, this is my motto as well. Yes, this is my lifestyle, but I do separate my work life from personal and prefer to keep it that way. I love to play and enjoy every moment I spend with you, however I prefer to keep things as ‘professional’ and courteous as possible.

Favorite types of appointments and clients?
I prefer a minimum of 90 minutes to 2 hour appointment to start. This allows us to take our time to relax and get to know each other as well as begin the journey toward bliss, ecstasies and full-filling those deep-dark desires. However, one hour appointments are also available. My favorite types of clients are long-term and typically visit me often, on-time, and with a good attitude. If you have a good attitude and allow yourself to relax and be in the moment then you will have just as good of a time as I always do when I ‘work’. Being loyal and not topping from the bottom are also wonderful qualities to possess. I also expect that if you say you will do something than you will. If you do not follow- through with something that is asked and expected of you than I will lose all credibility with you- this is the type of client that wouldn’t be preferred. 

Can I buy you a gift?
While you aren’t obligated to bring me a present, often times I will be asked what are some of my favorite things? Well, in addition the items listed on under the WISH LIST tab, here are some further ideas. I love fresh cut flowers and plants of all kinds. It’s very soothing to me to be surrounded by nature when I am not in the Blue Room. I also really love journals and unique fountain pens and pencils. I’m trying to become an aspiring writer, but I am old fashioned and I like my “hard copies”. 

Favorite hobbies-outside of The Blue Room?
I love reading. If I go more than 1 day without reading a book than I feel like I am off balance and not myself. I typically have 3-4 books going at any giving point on various topics. I really am fascinated by how the human mind works as well as how our behaviors and thinking affects our everyday lives. Striving to constantly gain knowledge is at the heart of me. I also love working out and getting outside. I am trying to take more advantage of all the great museums, parks, and events that DC has to offer- but I am working on it.

What do you get most out of your “work”?
Connecting with my clients and being part of their fantasy world is probably one of the main reasons why I love my work. I also strive to help people in small way yet positive ways; whether it is being comfortable with accepting yourself as you are or just being able to love yourself and accept that you have needs that must come out and that it is ok to do so. If I can shed light into this area for my clients and they have one of those moments with me than I’ve done my ‘job’ and feel really honored and humbled to do so.

How do you like to relax?
I like to relax in many ways, but a good book and a glass of wine is always a good place to start. If I’m feeling more adventurous I will work out to get really tired and then take a nice long bubble bath with lots of candles and music to soak away all my troubles. Of course, nothing beats a professional massage and a manicure and pedicure. It’s truly a delight that I wish would happen more often.

What’s the craziest thing you’ve ever been asked to do?
I could tell you, but then you wouldn’t buy the book. (in progress)  

Favorite movies/books/tv shows?
Anything with Audrey Hepburn, Grace Kelly, and Cary Grant will get my vote any day. I love old movies when glamour and the sultry, sexy sirens reigned. I also love to laugh at a good comedy anyway. However, a good Hitchcock suspense thriller or drama never gets old either.
I am addicted and a HUGE fan of Mad Men and Breaking Bad. I love these shows (on AMC) because they are so well written, authentic and true to the story. If you haven’t had the privilege to watch these ground-breaking shows, please do so immediately- you won’t regret it. I am a big fan of Seinfeld as well. It’s one of my all-time favorite shows in which I know too many quotes and useless information about it. I also love Jeopardy. I try my hardest to get all the answers right, but I don’t always make the grade, but eventually I will.
I read anything I can find about psychology, how the mind works, erotica, and of course specialty fetish books and coffee table books-especially black and white fetish books. I love reading biographies and autobiographies especially about woman that have changed the world or have been great seductresses.

Why are you so mysterious about yourself?  
I like to keep people guessing. Nothing is more boring than a person that you can figure out in 5 minutes or less. Since I am a mix of so many things, it is often very difficult to figure me out so I will remain a mystery to you which is exactly the way I like it. I want you to become addicted with the urge to find out more about me, see me more often and try to get in favor. Only then will you be able to piece together some pieces of the puzzle that is the Seductrix Bella Bliss.

Who are some of your favorite fetish artists?
My absolute favorite fetish artist is Olivia. I love her work with Bettie Page. She is one of my all-time favorite icons. She changed the face of BDSM and in a wonderful way. Her spirit and attitude exuded confidence, charm, and sexiness- she is who I think of each time I begin to ‘work.’ This is why I love my work so much- it is an art form where you can become your own image and stylized creation of Bettie Page- it’s wonderful and truly amazing. I also love Ray Leaning. He’s a great artist that loves pin-up art and has created his master pieces for a new generation. He uses pencils to create beautiful examples of gentleness and strength as well as dominance and submission. I highly recommend his work if you can find it.

From a stranger who would like to cease being one to you.
-N. Barney